8 February 2026 • By Janie
Your First Spiritual Reading: What to Expect
I remember the first time I had a spiritual reading. I was nervous. I didn't know what to wear, what to say, or whether I'd be asked to do anything strange. I wondered if the reader would tell me something frightening, or whether the whole thing would feel a bit awkward. In the end, it was one of the most comforting, eye-opening experiences I'd ever had — and it changed the course of my life.
If you're feeling any of those same nerves about booking your first spiritual reading, I want to put your mind completely at rest. Here's an honest look at what actually happens.
There's No Wrong Way to Show Up
First things first: you don't need to be spiritual, religious, or even particularly open-minded. You don't need to meditate beforehand or bring crystals or know your star sign. You just need to come as you are. That's genuinely all that's required.
Some people arrive with burning questions. Others come out of pure curiosity. Some are going through a difficult time and looking for a bit of clarity. All of these are perfectly valid reasons. There's no entrance exam for a spiritual reading — just a willingness to sit quietly for a while and listen.
What Actually Happens
When you arrive at my treatment room in Hickling, we'll have a cup of tea and a chat first. Nothing formal — I just want you to feel comfortable and settled. I'll explain how I work, and you can ask me anything you like.
During the reading itself, I work intuitively, connecting with the energy around you. I might use oracle cards as a focus, or I might simply speak from what I'm sensing. Every reading is different because every person is different. There's no script, no formula — just an honest, gentle conversation between your energy and my intuition.
I won't ask you to share personal details upfront. In fact, I prefer to know as little as possible at the start so that what comes through is genuinely from spirit rather than influenced by anything you've told me.
What You Might Hear
Spiritual readings aren't about predicting the future with pinpoint accuracy. They're about offering guidance, perspective, and sometimes validation of things you already sense but haven't been able to articulate.
You might receive messages about relationships, career directions, personal growth, or patterns in your life that are holding you back. Sometimes loved ones who have passed come through with messages of comfort or reassurance. Sometimes it's more practical — a nudge to pay attention to something you've been ignoring, or encouragement to trust your own instincts.
Whatever comes through, I share it with honesty and compassion. I won't tell you anything designed to frighten you, and I won't make claims about things I can't genuinely sense.
How to Get the Most From Your Reading
The best thing you can do is arrive with an open heart and a quiet mind. If you have specific questions, hold them gently — don't grip them too tightly. Sometimes the most important messages are the ones we didn't think to ask about.
After your reading, give yourself some quiet time to process. Don't rush straight into a busy afternoon. Go for a walk, sit with a cup of tea, or write down what resonated. Readings often unfold over the following days and weeks — things that didn't make immediate sense can suddenly click into place.
It's Always Your Choice
One thing I always say to clients: a reading offers guidance, not instruction. You are always in charge of your own life and your own decisions. Think of it as a conversation with a wise friend who can see things from a slightly different angle. You take what resonates, leave what doesn't, and always trust yourself above all.
If you've been thinking about booking a reading, I'd love to welcome you. You can find out more on my spiritual readings page, or have a look at my other healing services — many clients combine a reading with Reiki or crystal healing for a truly nourishing experience.